Decoding ten mentalities of men’s derailment
First, some lovers eventually become dependents. Both parties have their own families, or the other party is still unwilling to fall in love with each other after one of them is married. When one party has a difficult life or the husband and wife are not in a relationship, the other party feels that they still owe each other.Therefore, he took the initiative to initiate the embrace of the old lover, and the old love revived, resulting in extramarital affairs.
Lovers do not necessarily become dependents. Since both parties have become married or the other party has become married, they should face the reality and cherish the relationship between husband and wife. When the other party has difficulties in life or the husband and wife are in conflict, use extramarital affairs to repay each other ‘s interest.It is better to help the other party than to harm the other party.
Second, some curious couples live a normal life and feel dull, but the heroine of the film and television is entangled with their lover, the waves are blooming, they have a fun and chic, and they also want to experience this kind of life, so,Driven by this curiosity, extramarital affairs occur.
Third, some couples have revenge because one side has an affair and does not listen to persuasion, and the other side actively seeks a third party in order to retaliate against the other party, resulting in extramarital affairs.
Knowing that the other party is having an affair is wrong, why did you go to find a third party?
Moreover, marriage is free, and divorce is also free. If the relationship has broken down and there is no possibility of reconciliation, it may be better to divorce, to reconcile, and to be a friend is better than revenge.
Fourth, Xiangyue psychology Some men and women have helped each other and supported each other over time. Over time, the two sides shared common feelings and loved each other, resulting in extramarital affairs.
Fifth, some people think that life is alive, they should be happy in time, so promiscuous sex, resulting in extramarital affairs.
6. Some people are greedy for money because they are greedy for each other’s money, regardless of their personality, and actively commit themselves to each other in exchange for a few copper plates, thereby forming an extramarital affair.
7. Psychology of figure appearance Some people have proactively expressed love because of coveting the beauty of the woman or the body of the man’s body, which leads to extramarital affairs.
The beauty of the appearance will naturally disappear with the increase of age. Only the beauty of the soul is eternal. Like wine, the longer the time, the more mellow.
Therefore, the most important thing is to be good at discovering the splendor of your spouse, and present your true feelings. In this way, Xi Shi will naturally appear in the eyes of the lover.
8. Compensation Psychology Some people are actively looking for a third party or willing to accept a third person because the couple is separated (wife is pregnant), lonely or uncomfortable, or because the spouse has a physical defect, is physically unsatisfactory, or the relationship between the couple is not in harmony.The person makes preliminary compensation, thus forming an extramarital affair.
Sex life is not the whole content of husband and wife life, as long as the husband and wife strengthen the relationship, communicate more emotionally, miss each other in their hearts, life is still full, so there is no need to compensate.
Nine, some people have reciprocity. Some people get help from each other because of difficulties in life, or because their husbands have been away for a long time, and their families have been taken care of by each other for a long time. They have no choice but to give up their bodies, which leads to extramarital affairs.
In fact, since the other person sincerely helps you, he doesn’t try to reward you. The other person has kindness to you. You can remember it in your heart. Why give yourself up?
If this affects the other person’s family, would it not be good to do bad things.
X. Psychology of mutual benefit Some people have extramarital affair because of the relative relationship at work, and use each other for mutual benefit.